1 of 5 New Couple Have Sex Toys Forever Forgetting

Jakarta - After the baby is born , the couple will be busy with many things like changing diapers , breastfeeding , bathing and awake at night because the baby woke up . The various activities that make sex couples put the final list of activities they want to do . Surveys conducted brand pelvic exercise aids , Kegel8 , proving the above is indeed the case . Even worse , one of five couples actually forget about sex in their daily activities forever . The survey revealed , for the new spouse have children , sex becomes a thing they do not care about. Men and women alike feel this aversion to lovemaking . One of the five men surveyed said they found it difficult to express the desire to make love . And women , the percentage is more that 50 % of them are too scared to sex . There are many reasons why women are too worried to have sex . 38 % of women admitted to fear of pain and pain during sex is the cause. While one third of respondents say they worry about the other sex is no longer enjoyable as used to be like before giving birth . Gynecologists Fijolek Laura McKain and Rachel J. Masch has an explanation why after giving birth sex can hurt. According to dr . Laura , a woman who gave birth to normal , usually will get sewing in her vagina . As quoted by Baby Center , this makes sewing your vagina back tight and stiff , although it passed 4-6 weeks after delivery . Besides stitching , a woman's body is still in the healing process after childbirth . Substitution hormones make women equal . To avoid too ill while the couple to penetrate , ask your husband to do it slowly . Also make sure your vagina is already generating a lot of lubrication . Did foreplay as long as you need until you feel ready . Lubrication is becoming an important element that you do not feel pain during sex . However, it is usually after childbirth female hormone estrogen will decrease , causing the vagina to become dry . How to solve this reduced lubrication ? According to Rachel , there is no harm in using a lubricant . Nowadays many water-based lubricants in the form of a gel . This water-based lubricants in accordance with the natural lubricating fluid produced by the body so it will not irritate the vaginal wall is very sensitive . Lubricant gel can be obtained at pharmacies usually in tube packaging . Alternatively you can enlist the help of a doctor to prescribe estrogen creams that can help the vagina to produce a liquid , but do not affect the process of breastfeeding your baby . Addition of enough foreplay couples can also help you be free from dry vagina .